pain in a frame

It’s New Year’s Eve Eve, and I’m getting ready to wind down and got to bed, but I just wanted to make one last post before I go. I do think I’ve spent far too much time on my own this holiday.  This is the second Christmas/New Year holiday since I lost my husband, and I have to to say I’m feeling it just as much this year as I did last.  2  years is a long time, and I have been telling myself I should be picking up now.  But then, where is the rule book that says that?  They say time heals everything, but nobody says how much time.  A day, a month, a year, 2 years, 10 years?  I’m thinking maybe it will never get better, or maybe it will, but however long it takes, I will feel better when I am ready to, and not before.  Grief sucks. Loneliness sucks.

In the immortal words of The Dixie Chicks, ‘They say time heals everything, but I’m still waiting…’



Balloon Dreams Pose/Backdrop by Exposeur
Kirin Hair by [monso] for Harajuku (until 10th January)
Gisell Mini Dress Gold by TO.kiski for Sense (until 8th January)



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