does my avi look fat in this…

It’s a very sunny Sunday where I am, making a nice change, because it’s done nothing but rain all week!

Today I am a bit upset. Someone whom I thought was a good friend made a couple of nasty comments towards my avi and how it looked, yesterday. I mean, he didn’t mean to be nasty I don’t think, he just didn’t think before he spoke. He mentioned about how he thought my avi had put weight on, but he didn’t say it in private, it was in local, at a club, where I was playing a set! And he said, I quote ‘Looking at Phen’s avi, I am wondering if the springs on her new car will handle the weight’, amongst other things, but this was the one that pissed me off. For a split second, everyone in the club was speechless. The owner then told him he was out of order. He did apologise, in private, which I accepted, but I wasn’t happy, not at all. I’m still not. I’ve always had a rather short, curvy avi, I like having curves. So I’ve spent 4 hours in world this morning messing with my shape trying to look less fat. I gave up in the end and went back to my original look.

Body shaming in any world is unacceptable.


Ale pose set by Cronos Poses
Xiou Hair, Streaks Version, Unaturals HUD (included) by .EscalateD. for We Love Roleplay until 31st July
Layla Glasses by Fetch for Uber until 22nd July
Karina Swimsuit and Tunic by Mutresse for Collabor88 until 5th August
Helle Body & Face Skin Caramel by 7 Deadly s[K]ins July Group Gift Female
Helle Shape by 7 Deadly s[K]ins July Group Gift Female
Baby Face Head W001 by GENUS Project (store currently closed)
Lara Body V5.0 by Maitreya

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