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Crisis Of Confidence

Crisis Of Confidence (2)

This week I have had a major crisis of confidence. Those of you that follow and read my blog will see there have been no posts for several days. This is because I appear to have lost the ability to take a half decent photo.

This happened to me once before, last year, and I had some advice from some very dear friends of mine telling me I should take a break, then come back to it after a while. At that time it worked. This time it has taken me a while.

It has made me wonder if I should give up with my blog and photography. I’ve done some real soul searching, and I decided that I should only give up if I don’t want to get any better. So as I strive to learn how to take better pictures, I am continuing as I did before. Besides, I don’t do anything else in my Second Life, so If I did give up, I would have no reason to come here.

That plus the fact I love telling you about all the awesome goodies available to you…..

Crisis Of Confidence

First up today I have this gorgeous Top and Pants from Haus of Ito. The Kate top and Masey pants both come in fits for Slink Physique and Hourglass, Belleza Freya, Isis and Venus and Maitreya. Both come in 7 colours plus gold or silver options for the metal bits. You can get these now until 29th March at the Level Up event.

My shoes are from Glamistry. These are the Camilla heels. They come in fits for Belleza, Maitreya and Slink and there are 12 colours available for the shoes and heels, 6 colours of metals and 5 colours for the soles. You can get these now at the Glamistry Mainstore.

My Hair is from Tameless Hair and Avatars. This is the Gae hair and comes with lots and lots of colour options. One of a number of styles released on promo recently at the Tameless Mainstore.

I was at Cosmopolitan recently and picked up this lovely necklace from Codex. This is the Allizee necklace and it comes with a colour change HUD, there are 3 colours of metals and 4 colours for the gems, and the HUD also has a resize feature. Cosmopolitan runs until 25th March.

My pose is from Something New. This from the Feel Her Pose set. There are four poses in the set and it is exclusively available at the Spoonful Of Sugar Event which raises money for Doctors Without Borders. Spoonful of Sugar runs until 1st April.

My new skin is from Dulce Secrets. This is the Chai Skin and it’s available until 26th March at the Skin Fair 2017. There are lots of options for make up, brows and freckles, I’m wearing option 1 with blonde brows and freckles.

Also from the Skin Fair is my shape and eyes from Mesange. This is the Tilda shape for Catwa Bento heads one of a selection of new shapes from Mesange released at the fair. Each shape has a pair of Mesange eyes included, the TIlda shape comes with the Percy Eyes #1. The shapes are modify and there is a style card included so you can tweak away to get the look you want. I’m just wearing it straight out the box with no tweaks!

Well I think thats it for now! Lots packed into this one. Enjoy what little of your weekend is left, I’ll be back soon to show you some more stuff, right now I’m off to find someone to teach me how to take that all elusive great photo….

Below the links and thngs…….

Top – Haus of Ito – Kate Top for Level Up 16th – 29th March
Pants – Haus of Ito – Masey Pants for Level Up 16th – 29th March

Shoes – Glamistry – Camilla Heels

Hair – Tameless Hair – Grae

Necklace – Codex – Allizee for Cosmopolitan 13th – 25th March

Pose – Something New – Feel Her #1 for Spoonful Of Sugar 18th March – 1st April

Skin – Dulce Secrets – Chai Skin (makeup option1 with freckles) for Skin Fair 2017 March 10th – March 26th.

 Shape (+ Eyes) – MESANGE– Tilda Shape ( Catwa Bento) Includes Percy Eyes 1 for Skin Fair 2017 March 10th – March 26th

My body & bits
Body – Maitreya Lara V3.5 (with feet)
Hands – Vista – Bento Prohands V.1Final
Head – Catwa – Catya V2.08
Eyes – Catwa – Mesh Eyes V1.0

Photos taken on location at Neverfar



Spread Your Wings


Spread your wings and fly away
Fly away far away
Spread your little wings and fly away
Fly away far away


Marvelous Monthly is still underway, it closes on 25th September, you still have enough time to get this exclusive Seaside Dress from Byrne Boutique. The dress comes in 3 different colour sets. It has standard fitmesh sizes with an alpha plus fits for Belleza, Slink and Maitreya.


My gorgeous eyes today are from Mesange, they are called Lionsong and these are so pretty. I’m wearing no 10 but there are 15 colours to choose from and as always from Mesange there are both classic and mesh eyes in the pack along with an alpha if you need it. These are the exclusive for the Inspirations SL event.

My lips are from Vainly Chic and are exclusively available at Spoonful of sugar. The Rose Petal lips are very pretty, I have blogged them a couple of times recently but they are awesome and I just love them!

The pose today is from ENIIPose and is just beautiful, It’s called simple ‘Fly’ Available on their marketplace store, the humming bird is included.

And I just have to show you my beautiful flowers. My crown and choker are from Yummy at this round of Collabor88. I don’t blog for Yummy but these are so lovely I just had to give them a special mention.


Thats all for today, below the when and where etc…

Dress – (BYRNE) Seaside Dress – PinkPearl for Marvelous Monthly 1st – 25th September

Hair – Runaway Fjara Hair Black for Hairology

Crown – (Yummy) Simple Rose Crown – Pinks for Collabor88
Choker – (Yummy) Rose Choker – Pink for Collabor88

Eyes – MESANGE – Lionsong Eyes #10 for InspirationsSL Opens 18th September

Lipstick – Vainly Chic – Rose Petal Lips for Spoonful of Sugar Festival

Pose – ENIIPose – Fly

My Body & Bits….
Head – CATWA Tumble V4.9
Body – Maitreya Lara V3.5 (with feet and hands)
Shape – readmeri Apples (slightly modified)

Photos taken at private sim

Vintage 1931


I’m convinced I was born too late! I found a lovely 1930’s sim today, felt right at home there! The perfect place to show you my outfit today. The sim was Boston Harbour 1931 you’ll find the link in my credits below. It’s an rp sim, there was no-one there when I went today, but I’m definately going to go back. I may even have found my new rp home!

This beautiful vintage style dress from Black Rose Designs is available now at this months round of Revamped, which runs until 20th September. The Lucy Retro Dress comes in
5 standard fitmesh sizes and fits for Belleza, Maitreya and Slink. There is a colour change HUD, and there are 10 plain colour options and four dot colours.


My nails are the latest release from Dark Passions – Koffin Nails. The Akiras Ascent set is one of two sets exclusively available at the Mesh Body Addicts event which runs until 30th September. They come with appliers for Slink, Belleza and Maitreya. Six colour options are available and you can buy them in single sets or as a fatpack.

My Lipstick is from Vainly Chic, an exclusive for the Spoonful Of Sugar Festival. The Rose Petal Lips is an Omega applier. 5 beautiful shades. This item is ONLY available at the Festival. Once the event is over more colours will be released on the marketplace store.

My Crystal Ball Ring is from Jinx also at Spoonful Of Sugar and is a fun versatile piece of jewelry that looks great with any outfit. Comes with a HUD for 4 lovely subtle colour options.


My Lovely hair and hat are from Vanity Hair. I don’t officially blog for Vanity but I do wear their hairs a lot and I love this vintage style bob with hat included. Perfect for my vintage look today! There’s a HUD to change colours on the hat and flower.

The pose I’m using today, in the first picture is one from The Vanessa Set by an lar poses. Again I’m not an official blogger for them but I do use their poses a lot in my posts and the deserve a mention. Especially as this set is from the Book of Daniel Fundraising Event.

Dress – Black Rose Designs – Lucy Retro Dress for Revamped  28th August – 20th September

Nails – DP – Koffin Nails – Akira’s Ascent for Mesh Body Addicts  10th – 30th September

Lips – Vainly Chic Rose Petal Lips for Spoonful Of Sugar Festival 9th – 25th September

Ring – Jinx –  Crystal Ball Ring for Spoonful Of Sugar Festival 9th – 25th September

Hair/Hat – Vanity Hair – Miss Fisher-Black

Pose – an lar [poses] The Vanessa Series for The Book Of Daniel Event 8th – 20th September

My Body & Bits….
Head – CATWA Tumble V4.9
Body – Maitreya Lara V3.5 (with feet and hands)
Shape – readmeri Apples (slightly modified)

Photos taken on location at Boston Harbour 1931

A Spoonful Of Elegance


“Elegance is not about being noticed, it is about being remembered”


You will both be noticed and remembered with my outfit today, which combines elegance and beauty with some of the things available at the Spoonful of Sugar Festival. The festival is a fund raiser benefiting Doctors without Borders/Medicines Sans Frontieres. You can read more about it HERE .
Firstly, from Posh Pixels is the very elegant Garbo Gown in Ocean. It comes in 5 std sizes and there is an alpha layer too so can be worn with both mesh and classic bodies. Pam Nightshadow of Posh Pixels is fast becoming one of my favorite designers, she never disappoints with her designs, and this gown is no exception. I love the colours, its blue, and green and purple all in one!

To go with this beautiful dress I have chosen this equally beautiful jewelry set from Semi Precious. The set consists of a bracelet for both left and right wrists, earrings and necklace. There is a HUD that you can use to resize. and also change the colours of both the stones and metals.


My Lipstick is from Vainly Chic, an exclusive for the event, The Rose Petal Lips is an Omega applier. 5 beautiful shades. This item is ONLY available at the Festival. Once the event is over more colours will be released on the marketplace store.

Thats it for now, below are the links to the SOS Festival and also the designers own stores so you can go visit and see what else they have to offer….

Dress – {POSH PIXELS} Garbo Gown – Ocean For Spoonful of Sugar Festival 9th to 25th September

Jewelry – Semi-Precious Mariposa For Spoonful of Sugar Festival 9th – 25th September

Lipstick – Vainly Chic – Rose Petal Lips for Spoonful of Sugar Festival 9th to 25th September

Eyes – MESANGE – Gold Digger Eyes Mainstore Gift

Hair – Lamb. Tigre – Black

Pose – Overflow Poses Pack 87 #1

My Body & Bits….
Head – CATWA Tumble V4.9
Body – Maitreya Lara V3.5 (with feet and hands)
Shape – readmeri Apples (slightly modified)

Pictures taken on location at The Beguiled



Thank goodness it’s Friday! It’s been a long hard week in both worlds for me! So, what better way is there to wind down for the weekend with a bit of relaxing retail therapy?

Right now is a great time for shopping in SL with so many great events going on. I’ve a few things for you from a couple of those events right here!

First of we have the Abbie outfit from POSH Pixels at Marvelous Monthly. The outfit includes jeans, top and jacket. There is a colour change HUD for the top and jacket shoulder pads, and a separate one for the jeans. Comes in all the usual sizes. Perfect for a day shopping or an evening out, or both! And, don’t forget the flash sale going on right now at POSH Pixels, you can read about in my post HERE.

Staying at Marvelous I have these gorgeous nails from diva! The Neon Nails applier is for Slink nails and has 8 different choices of colour. Click HERE to see a closeup of the nails.

My cute glasses are from Ecko. The Susan Glasses. They come in 8 different colours and are resizable. Essential for that ‘Intellectual’ look. Hmm… thinking about it maybe more the Ugly Betty look in my case!


A brand new event opened today. The Spoonful Of Sugar Festival. The festival is a fund raiser benefiting Doctors without Borders/Medicines Sans Frontieres. You can read more about it HERE.

The first item I have to show you is my cute shopping bag from Cazimi. This is the Rice Bag Tote. It comes with a HUD with 4 different designs via a HUD and also you can resize via the HUD. It has hold animations for both right and left hands, or like i did you can edit it to fit with any other pose you have.


My boots are also from the festival. These are from Baby Monkey. The Tiggie Boots come in two packs, the basics pack, which I have, comes in 10 Essential colours changed with a HUD. There is also an add on pack with a HUD for additional colours. They are fitting for classic avi’s but I have just removed my feet from my Maitreya Lara body and no-one is any the wiser. Although, they are now ‘cos I just told you!


Last for today from the Spoonful of Sugar Festival is my beautiful necklace. This is from Jinx and is a RARE item in the exclusive gacha collection of necklaces made for the event. The collection is called Spoonful of…….The one I’m wearing is Spoonful of Pearls. There are 9 commons and 2 rares and there is also a HUD for changing colours. I’ve included the gacha key below. It’s worth noted that 100% of the proceeds of this collection will be donated to Doctors without Borders/Medicines Sans Frontieres.


The pose in the main picture is from Image Essentials. Part of the Expressive range on offer at Designer Showcase. This on is no 5 mirror from V2. There are three sets in all each with 6 poses plus mirrors.

Well, I think thats all from me for today. Have a great weekend and no doubt ill be back soon with lots more great stuff for you. Happy shopping !

Outfit – {POSH PIXELS} Abbie for Marvelous Monthly

Nails – diva! Neon Nails Applier for Marvelous Monthly

Bag – Cazimi: Rice Bag Tote for Spoonful Of Sugar Festival

Necklace – Jinx Spoonful of Peals (RARE) For Spoonful Of Sugar Festival

Boots – Baby Monkey – Tiggie Boots Black (basics pack) For Spoonful Of Sugar Festival

Pose – IE Image Essentials Expressive V2 #5 Mirror For Designer Showcase 5th – 30th September

Glasses – .Ecko – Susan Glasses Red

Hair – Alice Project – Nicki – Black

Lipstick from the Catwa Tumble Head HUD

My body and bits….
Head – CATWA Tumble V4.9
Body – Maitreya Lara V3.5
Hands – Slink Casual V2.3
Feet – Slink High V2.1

Pictures taken on Location at Paris Je T’aime

Message In A Bottle

SOS First Post SN SOS Pose

Pose –  **SN Something New ~ SOS for Spoonful Of Sugar Festival  9 – 25 September

The Spoonful Of Sugar Festival opens it’s doors on 9th September and will run to 25th. Lots of great designers, bloggers, builders and other’s have given their skills and time freely for this great cause. Read more about it on their website here

I’ll be bringing you items from the event over the coming weeks, and believe me there’s going to be some really awesome things to show you. First up is this fabulous outfit from LUXE Paris, one of my all time favourite stores in SL. In fact, I used to blog for them but due to time restraints in RL I had to give them up along with many others. Judging by this outfit though, I might ask to go back!

And because I couldn’t show you the outfit properly whilst i was floating in my bottle…..

SOS Post 1 Luxe Paris

The outfit comes with this lovely snuggly warm hooded jacket and cropped top, sexy shorts and awesome socks and boots! Comes in the usual standard sizes for classic avi’s. and fits for Belleza, Isis, Freya, Slink, and Maitreya. Boots are standard fit.

SOS 1_008

SOS 1_013

Outfit – LUXE Paris SATURDAY Jacket, Tank, Shorts & Boots For Spoonful of Sugar Festival 9 – 25 September

Pose – Second Picture [ Focus Poses ] Country Fence

SOS Logo

My body and bits….
Head – CATWA Tumble V4.9
Body – Maitreya Lara V3.5
Hands – Slink Casual V2.3
Feet – Slink Flat V2.1 (Alpha’d to fit boots)

Pictures taken at my private home

SOS Website

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